As I look back, I have sooo many sessions I need to blog about…but I wanted to make sure I didnt forget this one! Oh, what a joy it was to spend time with my dear friend, Heather, and her sweet family. There is such an amazing group of photographers in Birmingham, (and yes, we all love each other) and I am so delighted to call them friends. We meet for lunch as a group once a month, also one on one playdates… we make use of social media where we connect to learn from each other, vent to each other, laugh at each other and even share prayer requests. In addition for sharing a love of photography, we are (for the most part) all moms, so we can pretty much finish each other’s sentences.
I have come to know Heather through this group and am soo thankful! She has a heart of gold and her laughter is contagious! Her sweet family is so precious and being with them for just even a minute, you can see how they are just smitten with each other! It’s too cute! I got to spend an afternoon with them at the Christmas tree farm to capture their new christmas tradition as a family! It was so fun and playful and I’m so glad I got to be a part of it in a small way! Please check out their cuteness!




They found the perfect tree!







I told you they were cute!! If your family has a tradition (doesnt have to be christmas….it can be Saturday morning pancakes)…please dont let they years pass by and not capture it in one way or another! Having these precious memories is absolutely priceless and I have to say…I’m going to practice what I preach going forward as the whole time I was shooting this, I was thinking about how I want this for my own family! Yes…so delay no more! Let me know what it is you do with your family and let’s make it fun and interesting!
If I told you I had started one in 2011, you wouldnt believe me because I had not posted any pictures. NOT ONE!! This time last year, I had a newborn and was adjusting to 2 kids, so remembering to take a picture (or even feeling like it for that matter) did not come easy. I knew I was probably not going to commit to everyday, but I wanted to atleast do as much as I could…as much as life at that time would allow. I am actually working on putting them in a web collage so I can post them! I wasnt sure that I wanted to do this project again, but as I have been going through the pictures from this past year, I thought ‘how could I NOT’?? Not because it’s the cool thing to do now (all the cool moms are doing it
) but because I really wanted to capture what life is like with 2 little girls RIGHT NOW. I want to look back and look at every little detail and remember living it, hearing the laughter, as well as the crying. There will be a day when Ava will not run around the house as she is ‘flying’ her fairies….I want to remember that! I want to remember the chipmunk cheeks that everyone so loves about Mara…and how she would rather walk on her knees than stand up on her feet (true story). So yes, I am committing to it whole heartedly! And I will be posting these on my FACEBOOK as well as here on the blog for accountability. I hope you will join me as I will be sharing so much of myself…and I encourage you to do this as well. Definitely not too late to start! And if you dont have what you would consider a nice camera….phone cameras work just fine! Alot of last year’s pics were taken with my iphone, so go ahead! Capture away, you’ll be glad you did!
The picture in yesterday’s post is counting as the first picture of the year
….and here is today’s. I will be embracing a much healthier lifestyle this year (more on that later)…so today we spent the morning going to a local farmer’s market and grocery store to stock up on some goodies. Ava LOVES going shopping! Especially when she can push her own cart!

Ok…so this is two pictures! haha…sorry, couldnt decide!
Happy New Year!!! Another year has come and gone and every year at the turn of the year I get pretty overwhelmed at that thought. Going into a new year symbolizes so much to so many…and whether or not you are a ‘resolution’ person, there is something to be said about starting fresh. I look back at the year that was just wrapped up and see so many blessings that were bestowed upon us…which makes me excited to look into the unfolding year as I am filled with anticipation and faith that this will be a year of many victories. However, as I look at my resolutions I jotted down (this is the first year where I have actually written down resolutions/goals for the new year)…I am also filled with fear. Fear of failure, fear of inadequacy, fear of being disappointed and/or disappointing. I have struggled with many things in 2011, so when I gazed at what I would like 2012 to be with much optimism…I was hit with a secret and silent fear of many’what ifs?’ It was then that I was hit with a loving reminder as I was walking through my kitchen….taking everything in from the last few days spent with my family, our talks, and this morning’s church service. There it was on my fridge! The beautiful reminder!! I will let this serve as the first picture of 2012, and I pray that it is a constant reminder of how it is ONLY by the power of the Almighty Heavenly Father that we exist, have our being, accomplish everything and anything from the most simple tasks, to the most challenging goals, and ultimately anything it is we ask of Him, as it lines up with His will. I will fear no more, but I will cling to this truth!

Had so many great sessions this fall…but this one definitely stood out to me. Not only because these sisters are so sweet and beautiful, but they were so loving towards each other. Reminded me of my girls and the whole time during their session, I secretly wished that a few years from now, my girls would be just as close and fun loving with each other. I have 3 sisters, and there’s just something so special about having that sisterly bond! I think you’ll see exactly what I mean!



Hope everyone has had a GREAT Thanksgiving! I loved the fact that I was able to not be glued to my phone for a few days. My family is all spread out throughout the states, so having all of us in one place always makes it super special. Except my brother who recently relocated from Phoenix to Seattle, and couldnt join us. Missed him so much! Anyway…here I am. Almost midnight. I should be in bed, yet I am working. I am coughing so much, can barely think straight, let alone sleep…so thought I’d finish up some work since I’m up. I am sick and tired of being sick. It has been back to back…It’s constantly that someone in our house is sick. I have been coughing like a mule for the last 3 days, not sure that I have any lining left on the wall of my esophagus. Jason and Ava are in the same boat. Looks like 3 out of 4 of us will be headed to the dr tomorrow! Fun times.
I pulled a very sweet session to share! This little family was so cute. I couldnt believe how much M has grown since I saw her last. She was such a free spirit and had the face of an angel. See what I mean….?

Loved that silly little personality. So funny with her little looks



Love mommy and daddy shots








Pretty soon they will be a family of 4. That is so special to me
I have to laugh at myself…I *JUST* used that blog title not too long ago. If I had a quarter for everytime I titled my blogposts that way, I’d be going on a shopping spree! Well…first I’d have to find the time for something like that! So yeah…we’ve had some rough times here at the Abernathy household. Felt like I had the flu, turns out it was some viral laryngitis..that lasted more than I cared for it to…and then we were hit with the stomach bug! Nothing like spending 12 full hours in your bathroom…while the rest of your household is sleeping peacefully. Just as soon as I would think I’d be ok to go back to bed, I would sprint back to the WC….fun times! I really wanted to die in that very moment. Worst feeling EVER! I know it’s rough on us oldies…but I CANNOT imagine what our little ones are feeling when they have it too. Both of my girls had it (Ava’s wasnt as bad, thank God)…but we have finally come out of it and back to a sense of normalcy. Thankfully the hubs is made of steel and didnt catch it! Not sure if I can handle anymore vomit at this point!
I am taking a break from my editing marathon to put up some pictures of these pretty children I have gotten to hang out with. Folks it is BUSY BUSY…so if your session doesnt make it on here before the season is over, look for it in 2012 at some point. I am constantly coming across sessions I never blogged from 2010, or even from earlier this year. Sad I know. I should do like some retail stores and have a “if we dont blog your session by a certain time, you get your pics for free” policy! HA! Wouldnt you love that!
ok, enough word nonsense…here is a cute baby!! LOVE LOVE all that hair! My girls never had this much hair! I love all her little faces and how she loved to stretch her arms way out!








Gosh…they are this little for SOOO little! So glad I had the opportunity to spend time with little A in her first couple of weeks!
by Becky
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